http://ispuddle.com/2009/12/17/a-post-about-vanity-and-also-about-being-friend-dumped-which-really-sucks-even-when-you-are-not-12/ Fri, 18 Nov 2011 16:28:17 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 http://ispuddle.com/2009/12/17/a-post-about-vanity-and-also-about-being-friend-dumped-which-really-sucks-even-when-you-are-not-12/comment-page-1/#comment-312 Heather Wed, 30 Dec 2009 01:21:38 +0000 http://ispuddle.com/?p=546#comment-312 Hate to say it, but it sounds like you had expectations. Every time you have expectations that are too high or possibly idyllic, you're setting yourself up for disappointment. Often we have expectations for our friends that are not consistent with what they are or what they're even capable of. I've been where you are before, and I learned the hard way. It's a hard behaviour to break, but once you break it, you'll be happier. Heather Hate to say it, but it sounds like you had expectations. Every time you have expectations that are too high or possibly idyllic, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment. Often we have expectations for our friends that are not consistent with what they are or what they’re even capable of. I’ve been where you are before, and I learned the hard way. It’s a hard behaviour to break, but once you break it, you’ll be happier. Heather

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